Why Decision Makers Skip Your Proposals - and How to Make Them Say “Yes!

Cimi Ganjolla

2 min read

Ever poured hours into a proposal, only to hear, “I’ll think about it”? 😩 Here’s why this happens - and how to make your pitch irresistible.

Last week, I overheard a conversation that perfectly illustrates why decision-makers often skip proposals. A barista pitched a coffee subscription to an executive who barely engaged. Sound familiar? 🤔

🎯 The Problem: Decision Fatigue

Decision-makers face an average of 35,000 decisions daily. By the time they get to your proposal, they’re mentally exhausted. The result? They skip it.

Why?

  • Overload: Too much information = shutdown.

  • Prevention focus: They look for risks, not benefits.

  • Snap judgments: First impressions are made in 3 seconds.

I learned this the hard way when a client's meticulously crafted 30-page proposal was rejected without discussion. The deal-breaker? A single line about implementation timing that triggered uncertainty.

🚀 The Fix: A New Proposal Strategy

1️⃣ Make It About Them, Not You

💬 Stop opening with, “We’re the market leader…”

👉 Instead, start with their pain point:

  • Instead of: “Our software integrates seamlessly.”

  • Try: “Struggling with disconnected systems? Here’s how we streamline your workflow.”

2️⃣ Personalize Everything

🖋️ Generic templates don’t work. Tailor your pitch with:

  • 🎉 Celebrating their wins: “Congrats on your recent $5M funding!”

  • 🛠️ Addressing industry challenges: “We know supply chain delays cost manufacturers millions.”

  • 🔗 Referencing past talks: “As we discussed, scaling while maintaining quality is key for you.”

3️⃣ Simplify to Amplify

📚 Dense proposals? A big no-no. Instead:

  • Use bullet points.

  • Add visuals or icons.

  • Keep paragraphs short and punchy.

4️⃣ Include a Clear Call-to-Action (CTA)

✨ Don’t leave them wondering, “What now?” End with:

  • “Book a demo this week to see the results yourself.”

  • “Sign here to get started—we’ll handle the rest!”

Real-Life Example

Remember the barista who pitched a coffee subscription? She flipped her approach:

  • Old Pitch: “Here’s why our coffee is great.”

  • New Pitch: “What’s your biggest morning frustration?” Result? A bulk order for the entire office.

The Bigger Picture: Decision-Making Psychology

Decision-making is influenced by emotions, biases, and mental shortcuts. Understanding these factors is key to crafting resonant proposals.

Practical Application: The New Proposal Framework

The Three-by-Three Rule: Answer three critical questions in three seconds.

The Psychology of Presentation: How Proposals Are Read

Eye-Tracking Studies on Proposals:

  • Top-Left Priority: Place critical info here.

  • Visual Hotspots: Use charts or icons.

  • F-Pattern Scanning: Write short, bolded headers.

The Role of Emotion in Reading:

  • Clarity: Avoid uncertainty.

  • Trust: Show authority.

  • Urgency: Use time-bound CTAs.

🧠 Key Takeaway

The secret to winning proposals isn’t about adding more. It’s about connecting with their psychology:

  • Address their pain.

  • Build trust.

  • Make action easy.

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